Rachael - Staying positive and taking it one meal at a time sounds like a solid strategy! Feeling guilty is never fun, but keep in mind that you did succeed at 9 of the 10 points. Had the Frosted Mini Wheats been "calling your name" all week, and you just finally succumbed last night, or were the cravings confined to that single day? Was anything different yesterday in regard to your situation, routine, preparation or environment as compared to the rest of the week? Clearly the recommendation for MWL would be to skip the birthday cake entirely. If you decide to eat some cake anyway, I would really encourage you to make some firm decisions, in advance of the party, about what the parameters are going to be: what does a small piece look like, what will be the cue to stop eating, &c. Make things as easy as possible by filling up on adherent foods before you get anywhere near the cake; better still avoid the cake entirely. Jeff's rundown of the recommendations for BMI below should help answer your question about healthy weight range.
JeffN wrote:jan_npr wrote:QUESTION: I think Dr. Ling at the McDougall program said that 21 was an optimal BMI for health and longevity. What do our moderators think of that?
To clarify, there is no exact number. Dr Lim gives a range which he gets from this thread of mine, which is a review of the literature on BMI and health.
Optimum BMI
viewtopic.php?f=22&t=6916The range we recommend is 18.5 to about 22. However, realize this is a general range. Often, when people see the range, they assume 18.5 is the best, which is not true, and then go crazy trying to get there. Several studies have shown that 22/23 is best. We don't know for sure but it seems fairly clear that the bottom half of the healthy range (18.5 to 22) is probably best for most. I cover these issues in the following threads which I recommend you review.
Optimal BMI - Redux
viewtopic.php?f=22&t=52375Difference in food choices and BMI
viewtopic.php?f=22&t=46837Should we all try to get to 22 BMI?
viewtopic.php?f=22&t=30838Should we all try to get to 22 BMI Pt 2
viewtopic.php?f=22&t=43218
anne57 - Off to a good start, indeed! Keep it up! Is there a particular type of exercise you've enjoyed in the past? Have you found yourself consistently eating to a point where you are uncomfortable, or just occasionally? Is it prone to happen at a particular meal or time of day? Keeping food simple and "plain" definitely suits some of us quite well.
cmcavazos - 2 pounds down! Awesome work maintaining your adherence during the family visit, Christine! Directing your efforts and focus on following the recommendations, rather than ruminating on other concerns seems like a wise approach to me.
PotatoHead1980 - It appears you had a pretty solid week, Chris! Well done not letting that single meal at the gala become the first in a series of deviations. Certainly, a dramatic change in salt consumption can affect fluid retention. Great idea to have SNAP meals ready for your vacation.
Enjoy and have fun!
bunsofaluminum - Down a pound! So glad you are feeling energetic and enjoying those longer walks. You didn't let the St. Patrick's Day festivities take over the rest of your week, so well done you! It appears that "soup course" is really working for you.
HoustonJason - Nice loss! The 100s draw ever closer! Was there a particular situation that led you to have the smoothie, or just something you decided to have in the moment? Keep doing the work and you'll hit that next milestone by and by.
PonysPlants - I can imagine your friends diagnosis came as quite a blow, Naomi; I wish for the best possible outcome. Some of us, myself included, do have to follow the recommendations fairly strictly to produce and sustain weight loss (particularly when we're near, or at, a healthy weight range). Always fun to fit into some new clothes, and garner some unsolicited compliments.
Getting in some food prep seems like an excellent practice; the surest solution to stay on plan when time, energy, and willpower are in short supply is having adherent food all ready to go with minimal work.
Principality - A pound gone! Having your home stocked with adherent foods is among the best ways to support your efforts; that should definitely help contribute to future success.
The more you can maintain an environment that serves to support adhering to the recommended pattern of behavior, the more achievable adherence will feel. Do the best you can to avoid being sedentary in a fashion that feels manageable for you; getting the food right will make the biggest difference. Aim for ongoing improvement. It really IS all going to be just fine!
Rebecka22 - Ten big YESes and 0.8 pounds lost!
Rebecka22 wrote:I was really hungry and really tempted on Sunday, but I just kept eating on plan food and doing something else to try and keep my momentum strong heading into vacation and in general.
Excellent! I think you handled that exactly in keeping with the recommendations.
Well done putting in the preparation and work to support your adherence over your vacation! Doing the best you can, without putting undue stress on yourself sounds like a winner! Interesting observation about "testing" yourself with the cookie baking. Based on
Dr. Lisle's presentation on willpower, a great way to "strengthen our willpower" is by eating adherent foods, whenever we feel hungry, which sounds like exactly what you did this week.
birdy birdy - Congratulations to your daughter on the upcoming nuptials! Best wishes to her and her husband-to-be! That is certainly a momentous occasion, and I can imagine learning the new couple will be moving soon after the wedding contributed to some powerful feelings.
While stomach upset after rich food feels unpleasant, I always also think it seems like a valuable experience; our bodies are trying to tell us something, right? We learn as we go. Onward!
GreenFroG - Sounds like a solid week of thoughtful effort and learning! Dining out in a way that allows for adherence to the recommended pattern of behavior definitely takes practice, attention, and trial and error; learning to translate the recommendations into actions under a variety of different circumstances is what progress (and this group) is all about. I applaud you for adopting that frame, and for choosing to treat yourself with compassion.
squealcat - 1.2 pounds! You have been consistently reporting some great results this month, Marilyn! Figuring out the foods, routines and practices that really work under your individual circumstances seems like a very important piece of the puzzle. It always feels welcome when the pull of various temptations seems diminished, and eating adherent foods in the face of those temptations is exactly the right approach. Having reasonable expectations about the thought and preparation needed to address an upcoming social event, without getting "stressed out" sounds like a fruitful perspective to hold. Spring is in the air! Hooray!
Noella - Another consistent drop on the scale this week! Your gardening project definitely sounds like it gave you a nice workout.
I echo
Jeff in noting that adhering strictly to the MWL 10-Point Checklist virtually guarantees more than adequate fiber intake.
Here is a great thread explaining this in detail.