kirstykay - Woo-hoo! First new post of the new year! It seems you did quite well, considering the post-surgery restrictions, Kirsty. What tools and techniques did you use to create adherent meals that were soft enough to accommodate your dental recovery? Wishing for you to continue healing well, for an easy return to "normal".
frowsyowl - Building time for exercise into your schedule and ditching the popcorn are definitely good steps to take, Jennifer.
Are you planning to take any other actions to facilitate closer adherence to the recommended behaviors? May you have nights of restful sleep in your future!
thatsright75 - Another solid looking week, Kali! What methods and tools have you found most helpful for attaining such consistent adherence?
GreenFroG - Welcome to this new thread for the new year! I'm sure having time with family was a delight for you! You've used the reporting format correctly; thanks for sharing the description of your batch cooking routine, which serves as a great example of how simple, helpful strategies can be applied. Getting those foods we find troubling out of sight (and out of reach
) is almost always worth trying; let us know how that works for you this week. Celebrations and other social occasions are a recurring challenge for many participants; experimentation, testing, and readjustment can be key to finding what works in a given situation. Something I've found to be helpful for those type of occasions is to have some of my most favorite adherent foods on hand, something that feels a little "special," that I perhaps don't buy as often. It helps make festive occasions still feel celebratory. As you said, "one step at a time."
HappyinOregon - You are off and going! Do you feel like this week went the way you were expecting it to go? Did you do any particular preparation or planning that contributed to a fairly adherent week? Anything that was a surprise or unforeseen challenge? What is your plan for phasing out the soy-based creamer? Have you been able to find a no-salt-added canned spinach? If so, I'm sure others would be interested to know the brand or label. Keep it up!
josietheschnauzer - Feeling much better and with no cravings! That sounds like a great place to be, Elsa! I would say 10/10 makes for an excellent reentry! Were there any particular practices or actions that you found to be most helpful for returning to MWL and being able to fully readapt so quickly?
Noella -
it reminded me how important it is to have satiating foods ready to eat, like roasted potatoes, cooked rice or precooked pasta that I can eat with some veggies on those times I suddenly I get very hungry.
This is an important point, and worthy of repetition.
Thank you for sharing your experiences regarding weight loss, activity level, and how the foods we choose (i.e. our prevailing pattern of behavior with respect to food) are such a key contributor to the results we experience. I absolutely LOVE the POMI tomatoes, too! I totally know what you mean about "traditional" foods not looking or smelling appealing; I've become quite sensitive to oiliness in particular, a VERY unappetizing smell that is quite noticeable when I'm around folks eating more "traditionally." The question of whether one might ALWAYS remain "addicted" to a particular hyperpalatable food is somewhat complicated, I think. I would say that highly-palatable, calorie-rich, processed foods, when consumed, nearly always pose a risk for triggering the Pleasure Trap. That is how the Pleasure Trap works, right? That said, something achieved once should be achievable again, no? I believe there is no lapse from which one cannot recover, provided continuing life and agency. It is much easier though, in my opinion, to avoid troublesome foods completely, rather than tempting a relapse. Far less arduous to STAY on track, than to GET BACK on track, yes? Best regards!
LLP - Insomnia is never fun! Hoping you experience restful nights ahead. As you note, once we can achieve and maintain the recommended pattern of behavior, the results follow given time. You mention that you "still have lots of things to change," what are you planning to do to make adherence more consistent and attainable for yourself? Planning any particular actions or interventions to support your efforts? TODAY is always the best day to start taking positive steps toward what we want to achieve.
moonlight - Being able to clearly recognize those patterns is so helpful, right? Knowing specifically WHAT we are doing when things work (and when they don't) can aid us in taking corrective action. Choosing fruit for an evening snack seems like an excellent practice to habituate; if you can keep it within reach, or easy to see and access, all the better. Adequate prep to have adherent foods ready to go solves the vast majority of problems, in my experience. In the areas where you saw improvement from last week, what do you think contributed to that? In those behaviors that had some regression, what would you say was the cause? Can that causative factor be addressed? Great quotes from Jeff!
VegSeekingFit - Happy middle of the month, Stephanie! Sounds like you have a solid food prep routine established. How fun that your son has been eating MWL, too! Continued improvement this week, yes? Let us know how the visualization works out as a means of motivating the elimination of those specific foods. Something that I have found personally helpful - establishing a specific action or behavior that is "triggered" by an impulse toward a food I want to avoid. For example, "when I find myself thinking about having pretzels or nuts, I will go to the refrigerator, get my adherent snack, and sit down to eat it." I've found my tastes have really changed, as well, right along the same lines you mentioned. Onward!
Gimmelean - Walking with 4 layers! Kudos to you! You have the majority of the recommended behaviors habituated; as you wrote, it is now just a matter of being able to adjust a few particular food choices, often made "in the moment." Having a predetermined, specific "substitute action" to turn toward at a moment's notice can be helpful in breaking those seemingly hardwired patterns. I compiled a collection of comments from wildgoose related to the Pleasure Trap and "cramming" below, along with a link to Dr. Lisle's lecture.
wildgoose wrote:eating after dinner is a very common issue. The trouble is, at that time we usually eat richer, more calorie dense foods, often when we're already full. We don’t want to cram in another bowl of broccoli or a final handful of carrot sticks — but if there’s some tasty "treat" around, somehow we find room for it.
Suggestions that have helped me:
- Don’t have rich foods in the house, or if you must (if spouse or kids insist), keep them hidden, locked away, or anything you can do to put obstacles between you and temptation.
- After dinner, clean up the kitchen and walk away. The kitchen is now closed for the night.
- Make sure you’re not restricting your food, particularly starch, during the day. That’s a sure way to get you munching at night, when your supply of willpower is depleted.
wildgoose wrote:Now for the big question: How do you handle the Pleasure Trap? Because that’s what you’re dealing with. You want "yummy" food. What you want, quite honestly, is fat. Creamy stuff. Vegan butter. Almond milk in your Starbucks. I get it. That’s how we're wired, to seek out rich food like that.
wildgoose wrote:I can tell you a few things. First, willpower is a finite resource. You will run out of it, if you depend solely on willpower to get you through. So structure your life so that doing well is easier and doing less well is harder. Clean up your environment so you don’t have to make choices between food that’s compliant and "edible food-like substances" that are not. Maybe (hard though it may be) experiment with giving up Starbucks for a month. Make your life as easy as possible, keep the stress low and try to minimize the number of decisions you have to make about food.
Second, cravings for fat take up to 3 months to go away. The more often you feed those little fat receptors, the longer it takes for them to downregulate. Your taste buds will adjust, but you have to put up with a period of time where food doesn’t taste as "yummy" as you might want it to. I did 35 days on just 5 foods when I started. I don’t recommend that approach, but I do recommend keeping food very basic and simple, especially at the beginning. If you’re wearing yourself out trying recipe after recipe, looking for something that tastes good, you’ll give in or give up.
wildgoose wrote:MWL is a choice. A choice you’re making for your health and your weight, to get where you want to be. It gets easier with time. Does the Pleasure Trap ever quit tempting you? No. You learn to stay away from the biggest temptations, and how to get right back into the groove if you stray. But are you ever totally immune? No. It’s always a choice. I look at a year-plus at goal weight, a level of health that I haven’t known in years, a wardrobe where everything is comfortably loose and everything in the closet fits — and I’m OK with not having some of my old comfort foods around.
wildgoose wrote:I also believe in keeping a clean environment. That bread of the Gander's is in a high cupboard that I don’t go into. He doesn’t bring anything else into the nest that is tempting for me. We did a LOT of negotiating and communicating on this, and it was worth every occasional disagreement to get the environment as clean as possible. Willpower is a limited commodity. The more tempting CRAP (calorie rich and processed) food that’s under your beak and easily accessible, the more willpower it requires to resist it. And it’s not a matter of if you will cave in, it’s a matter of when. Make the good food easy to get and the CRAP food much harder to get, and you’ll be more successful.
The Cram Circuit, The story of binge eating and overeating through the lens of Learning Theory. Carry on!
Drew*# - You've made a good start at implementing the recommended behaviors! Consistent progress is the aim, right? What tactics and techniques seemed to be helpful for you this week? What actions and further changes do you have planned for the days ahead to support further improvements? Keep moving toward your goals.
CUgorji22 - Another great looking week, and a very thoughtful self-evaluation, Chesca!
CUgorji22 wrote:I need to slow down (which I've been told before by many people-lol!), focus on preparing my meal & eat according to the guidelines I've committed myself to. As I review my week I can now see that taking care of myself in this way is actually more important than the "urgent" tasks at hand.
This is something that was also a real challenge for me, and I agree that making time to take care of ourselves is, at the least, every bit as "urgent" as other daily concerns.
Your excellent preparation and planning definitely served you well this week. I'm so impressed with your VICTORIOUS travel experience!
Happy birthday to your daughter! Great work finding a satisfactory way to celebrate her happy day!